NSFW

[alectorine]

Here's some more detail on my NSFW likes and dislikes in fic:


Favourites:

• breathplay/choking --  my absolute favourite, I'm 100% guaranteed to love anything that involves hands on throats, but not so much into choking on objects/dicks etc or smothering via covering the mouth/nose.
• violence -- fighting/sparring as foreplay, flipping between fighting/sparring and sex, post-battle sex, people getting turned on by being beaten up, hatesex, rough sex in general, anything so long as there’s some element of reciprocity with the violence (they don’t have to be equally matched, just trying to fight back).
• D/s undertones -- but please no formal BDSM, I prefer D/s when it's undernegotiated, especially if the sub character normally hates taking orders and isn’t totally acquiescent. I like subs being bratty and/or resentful.
• multiple partners -- any gender combination is fine.
• focus on hands/wrists/throats -- collars, neck kisses, people touching throats in general etc are all great. I also really like it when people grab other people’s wrists instead of their hands.
• restraints -- I prefer improvised restraints (eg ties/belts/just being held down) rather than handcuffs or other bondage-specific gear.
• authority kink -- ties in with D/s undertones. I like power imbalances and sketchy power dynamics and any dubcon/coercion stemming from that, especially when the person in the position of less power loathes relinquishing control but defers to the person in the position of authority anyway because they’re also secretly kind of into it, and the power imbalance gives them an excuse to submit.
• being overwhelmed -- basically, where someone is reluctantly really into whatever is happening to them but won’t admit it because that would be Giving In, and then being reduced to begging anyway out of desperation. I like people being forced to vocalise what they want in order to get it. Edging/orgasm denial in particular is really good for this, as is sex pollen. 
  • for sex pollen, I prefer only one character being affected.
• praise as a form of degradation -- when the person being praised hates it because they don’t want to admit they’re enjoying themselves, and the praiser knows it.
• if it involves the combination of violence and tenderness, I’m probably into it!

Other likes:

• clothed/partially clothed sex
• dragonfucking
• inappropriate use of weapons -- eg knifeplay, gunplay, fucking with a gun or the hilt of a knife
• mirrors
• non-penetrative sex
• selfcest and bodysharing

Dislikes:

• anything to do with food
• daddy kink
• formal or lifestyle BDSM
• graphic bloodplay and guro -- bleeding from being beaten up or from previous injuries is great, bleeding from being specifically cut up is not so great for me.
• medical kink
• negotiated kink in general -- so please no roleplay, scenes, contracts, elaborate bondage etc. I’m also not a huge fan of limits/safeword discussions.
• switching
• unsanitary situations -- eg sex in the woods
• watersports, scat etc
• essentially, please no permanent grievous bodily harm! However, if there is a supernatural healing mechanic at play, then I'm very open to more severe injuries eg stab wounds.